Never Stop Dreaming! Live Your Dreams and Not Someone Else’s.

by Marsha Glover

At some point in your life you grow up, but does that mean you stop dreaming?  I started off believing in fairy tales, believing I can change the world, and questioning what lies beyond the stars and then to be grounded.  I am not sure where that little girl went the one that dreamed of streets that were lined with gold, of castles high in the sky, or that she would be wearing designer suits in front of her desk.

The girl who went to sleep and dreamed of all the possibilities. The girl that believes in a higher power but knew you can have heaven on earth..  Did she grow up? Or did she play a game of hide and seek not to be found.

At some point, you stopped dreaming and started supporting everyone else’s dream.  Maybe you were told to be a good team player and play your part believing in the team more than you do yourself. 

So much so you only know that role.

You live in the shadows never seeking to step out front not because you can’t but because there is no I in team.  You are still waiting to be picked much like the dodge ball game you played, “please pick me”, and not wanting to the be last to be picked.  Not realizing or caring that you probably are better at the game than the selector of the team, but now your destiny is in that person’s hand.  A destiny of playing the supporting role, Robin to Batman.  Did Robin ever make the starting line up?

 I think it is important to learn your craft, perhaps take an apprenticeship. The only way you know of the job is if you first do it yourself. But at what point do you step out of the shadows and step in the spotlight. 

And what point do you stop being okay with being the apprentice and you become the mentor?

Get off the bench and become part of the starting line up?

At what point do you live your dreams and not get trapped in someone else’s?

I believe I finally found that girl! That little girl that was waiting to be found. The little girl waiting to be picked to be a player on the team. I went and found her and chose her! I told her that she had the potential to be part of the starting line up. She just needed to learn how to make that dream or desire a reality. When she was a student, she was the best student, learning what she needed to know to be a leader. Now life demands she step out and be a leader and she will be best at that too. She understands that you never stop learning but more importantly, NEVER STOP DREAMING!!!

That Girl in front in the tailored suit!

15 Comments

  • Ryan Glover October 26, 2019 at 5:17 pm

    DOPE. WELCOME BACK.

    • Camille Samuels October 26, 2019 at 7:18 pm

      Awesome blog!! Proud of you girl!!

  • Starr Donner October 29, 2019 at 7:29 am

    Glad you are stepping in front! You got this Marsha ❤️

  • Debi Chin October 29, 2019 at 12:34 pm

    So true. Never stop dreaming and always remember the enter little girl. Now I’m thinking 🤔 about my enter little girl.

    Great blog

  • Keandra November 1, 2019 at 6:47 pm

    Thank-you, that was right on time and I really needed to hear that.

    • Marsha Chin-Glover April 29, 2020 at 7:17 am

      Thank you Keandra! I am so happy to learn that… Many blessings to you and your family!

  • Tonya November 3, 2019 at 9:28 am

    Love this and glad you are back! 🥰

    • Marsha Chin-Glover April 29, 2020 at 7:16 am

      Thank you Tonya! so glad to be back!

  • Michelle Turnbull November 8, 2019 at 5:40 pm

    Welcome back! I love it. Keep dreaming!

    • Marsha Chin-Glover April 29, 2020 at 7:15 am

      Thank you Michelle! Thank you for reading… Side note: remember when we were little girls in Queens with dreams 🙂

  • Rashida November 14, 2019 at 12:33 pm

    All of this! Never stop dreaming! Welcome back, I love your blog!

  • Rashida November 14, 2019 at 12:34 pm

    All of this! Never stop dreaming! Welcome back, I love your blog!

    • Marsha Chin-Glover April 29, 2020 at 7:13 am

      Rashida thank you for reading! I am Back! 🙂

  • Erika December 2, 2019 at 9:23 am

    Awesome blog I pray an abundance of love, peace, happiness, and favor over your life. You are definitely making an impact on those who visit your blog, such as myself. I pray that you continue to walk in your divine purpose and lead by example!

    • Marsha Chin-Glover April 29, 2020 at 7:13 am

      Erika Thank you so much for your kind words! You never know how your words can motivate someone… Thank you for taking the time to respond and I pray abundance of love, peace, happiness and favor over your life as well!

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